Westside DIGS | Digital Edition Online

January 13, 2023

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1.13.23 | DIGS.NET 21 in 2014, the online school is available in the U.S. and 16 other nations. Students attend a three-month program focused on professional development, with courses like budgeting and entrepreneur- ship part of the curriculum. "I wanted to help survivors figure out how to navi- gate the rest of their lives," says Bender of Elevate, which to date has graduated 1,200 students, "and I wanted to offer it to anyone, anywhere." Training in such life-management essentials is often a vital part of what she terms a survivor's Now What— the design of a new life fortified by a strong personal vision, and the means to carry it out. As for Bender, her work continues on an upward trajectory of empowering survivors, aiding those who shut traffickers down, and thoughtfully increasing awareness of the crime, in all its complexities, among people from all walks of life who, by being properly informed, are now better armed. Or, as the activist plainly and powerfully puts it: "You need the right diagnosis in order to get the right treatment." Bender gets fou ndat iona l when discussing the dynamics of the crime. "Human trafficking is a crime against a person that involves using force, fraud or coercion for commercial gain," she describes. As a primary gateway, she points out, a trafficker will typically target a vulnerable person with the intent to exploit their needs. To do this, they look to erode an individual's personal boundaries, and gain their trust. Important, Bender notes, is that this behavior may not always lead to traf- ficking, but is an important red f lag that should always spark wary. To the oft-asked question posed to Bender about tips for keeping loved ones safe from victimization, her work related to recognizing and defending against mental tactics and strongholds used by traffickers—from recruitment and brain- washing to compliance and control—is pivotal foundational armour. Bender knows of what she speaks. She herself is a survivor of the crime, escaping a trafficker more than 15 years ago. "I started speaking and sharing my story," she recalls. Over time she created a training for law enforcement that utilized her experience—and it caught fire. Her approach was that of an interpreter who could translate the culture and dynamics of human trafficking, with the goal of enabling those on the front lines to be more trauma-informed, and thus more effective when interacting with victims. Bender's work expanded to helping victims of trafficking. "I was finishing my master's degree and I wanted to mentor other survivors," she recalls. Elevate Academy was born. Started by Bender Elevate Academy team members.

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